PART 1: THE ANNIVERSARY SURPRISE

I spent $150,000 planning the perfect fifth-anniversary escape for my husband, Marcus.

The trip was supposed to save our marriage.

For years, I had told myself that the distance between us came from stress, work and bad timing. I ran Aegis Systems, a cybersecurity company I had built from one small contract into a business protecting banks, hospitals and government networks. My work was demanding, but it paid for nearly every part of our life.