I live in a little brick duplex outside Paducah, the kind with chain-link fences that lean toward the alley and tomato cages made out of bent wire that rust the minute it rains twice in a row. I am sixty-seven, widowed for eight years come November, and nosy enough to survive. That’s what my husband Ray used to say when he caught me peering through the slats of the vertical blinds to see which cousin was hauling junk out of the yard across the alley.