My brother ordered my eight-year-old son a dry hot dog while his own kids sliced into $120 steaks. Then my mother glanced at me and muttered, “You really should have brought something for him to eat.” My son dropped his gaze and whispered, “I’m not hungry, Mom.” He was. And as everyone else went back to their overpriced dinners, I saw the waiter walking over with yet another bottle of wine. That was the moment I stood up. “Before dessert comes out,” I announced, “I have something to say.”