Maya lifted her left hand, and the diamond on her finger caught the office light. Radiant cut. Large, bright, confident. The kind of ring that announced itself before the woman wearing it entered a room.

My own wedding band was thin gold, plain by choice, or so I had believed. Michael used to say love did not need spectacle. “We’re not those people,” he told me when we got married at City Hall with a dinner afterward at a little Italian place in the West Village. I had loved him more for that. I had thought our simplicity was intimacy.